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I am going to make this as short and to the point as I can.We move out here in (kansas) in Jan this year. Because my parents needed help. (the kind of help i might add they would DIE before giving to anyone else) We paid for everything including paying off some of their debt. We did all of this with the money we had saved.. just over 10,000 We bought a few things we needed .. and I MEAN FEW. Our agreement with them was they would pay for 50% of everything even though we have the larger family and most of the bills... ect would be ours. This was suppose to be for 1 yr enough time for them to pay us back and for everyone to get ahead. Now in April of this year the money was gone and we were living off of my husband income and my fathers income.. My mother left and went on the truck (he is a truck driver). Leaving us resposible everything. Which is no problem we are able to do this. But they seem to be under some impression that we are going to continue to pay for everything and they can move back in come this winter when my mother is no longer allowed to be on the truck. All of their belongings are here and they seem to think i am a free storage unit. I need to know what RIGHT i have to move their stuff and or what i need to do. I realize i am not going to get back any of the money we spent on them for my dad to go to school or otherwise even though i kept all reciepts and made a note of everything. Now i wouldnt be so quick to do this and probably wouldnt care except my mother has recently decided she is going to get involved with another matter concerning my son and his biological father. And it seems to me i am not safe around her and neither is my son. I know what i would like to do and that would be hold a giant garage sale and MOVE but i dont think i have that right! I would like to know what i am ALLOWED to do. we paid all the deposits and my mother had all the bills put into her name in order to turn them over which we need to do it will mean paying more deposits. I need to know what I can do with their stuff? No their names are not on the lease no they do not pay the bills and NO THEY ARE NOT GOOD PARENTS GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT I WAS THINKING WHEN I DID THIS ONE! |
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“Because my parents needed help. (the kind of help i might add they would DIE before giving to anyone else)
This doesn’t make sense. Your parents NEEDED help and they wouldn’t GIVE to anyone else? You can’t receive help and give help if you’re the same person. ”but they seem to be under some impression that we are going to continue to pay for everything and they can move back in come this winter when my mother is no longer allowed to be on the truck.” What is “everything”? Do you mean you’re to pay for the rent, utilities and insurance? If they are NOT living there, then yes, it seems reasonable that you would pay all costs while they are NOT there. ”I need to know what RIGHT i have to move their stuff and or what i need to do.” If it were me, and they’re not there, yes, I would move their stuff into storage, a back bedroom, a safe/dry garage, and mini-storage, and outside small dry shed. I don’t see why you couldn’t. ”I know what i would like to do and that would be hold a giant garage sale and MOVE but i dont think i have that right! I do not understand why you think you don’t have the right to move. Sure you have the right to move. If that is really what you want to do, inform your parents that you will be putting all of their stuff into a mini storage if that is where they want it. The monthly fee for a mini storage is pretty low compared to rent and utilities. “We paid all the deposits and my mother had all the bills put into her name in order to turn them over which we need to do it will mean paying more deposits. No their names are not on the lease no they do not pay the bills” Your statements contradict each other. You say their names are not on the lease, but just above, you say your mother had ALL the bills put into her name. If the lease is in your name, you can give the required 30 day notice, and move. I think if you have a reasonable discussion with your parents, explaining how difficult it is for you to be handling all the bills, that this wasn’t what was agreed, and that it puts you in a position of having to move, they will likely be cooperative. I would think you both can come to a reasonable solution. Give it a try. |
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