adoption laws; CA. MARRIED FATHERS RIGHTS!

PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME JUST WHAT ARE THE LAWS IN THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA REGARDING A MARRIED MANS RIGHTS REGARDING HIS LEGAL PARENTAL RIGHTS CONCERNING HIS RIGHT TO OBJECT TO HIS WIFE ADOPTING THIER NEWBORN BABY WITHOUT HIS CONSENT OR KNOWLEDGE? AND WITH EVERYONE INVOLVED KNOWING HE IS THE MARRIED SPOUSE AND LEGAL BIOLOGICAL FATHER OF THE BABY, THEY STILL GAVE THE BABY TO THE PEOPLE THE MOTHER SELECTED AND AGREEDTO ADOPT. AT THE HOSPITAL, THE ENTIRE STAFF IGNORED MY SONS OBJECTIONS AND ALSO REFUSED TO ACKNOWLEDGE HIS RIGHTS AS THE FATHER AND OR HIS LEGAL RIGHTS TO SEE HIS NEWBORN BABY, MY SON IS HEARTBROKEN, AND I AM VERY ANGRY AS WELL AS IN DESPERATE NEED OF WHERE TO START, WE DONT HAVE ALOT OF MONEY, BUT NEED AN ATTORNEY THAT HAS SOME FORM OF PAYMENT ARRAINGMENTS, THE BABY IS ONLY 13 DAYS OLD! AND WE ARE WORRIED THAT WE LOST OUR PRECIOUS LITTLE ONE. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

I worked for the Opened Door Adoption Agency in Thomasville, GA over a dozen years ago and I know some laws have changed, but it was, at that time IMPOSSIBLE to place a child for adoption without the fathers consent--married or not. If the bio dad was never named, we still had to make a "good faith" effort to find the man, AND even if the guy never appeared---the child was still considered "placed, but at risk" (of the guy showing up later wanting the child). NO ONE but a court that has just cause can terminate your sons rights--in other words, the child is as MUCH his as it is HERS. Is his name on the birth certificate? There is simply no way this is a legal adoption, unless, of course, there are important relevant details being omitted.

Also, another thing to note--even if the child werent his biologically, and if he was married to the birth mother, legally it IS his child, until the bio dad is named, tested, etc ( in MY state, anyway).