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Old 11-16-2007, 09:22 PM
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Question Son's father deceased, Grandmother gave away clothes father had bought for him.

Hello my 2 yr old's father passed away two months ago. His father had no will and no executor. (My son has always lived with me and is still living with me).

Father was 25 yrs old and lived with his mother.

After his death was told by numerous family that there were a lot of clothing bought by father for his son.

I scheduled to meet paternal grandmother on a specific date on a Sunday. She got the days mixed up, got mad cause she thought I stood her up, out of anger gave the clothes away to a couple who just had a baby and left only two outfits for my son.

Grandmother said she gave away a large garbage bag worth of clothing claiming the clothes were small. But father told me a month or so before his death that he had a lot of stuff for his son, he was more into buying clothes than toys. But his father passed before being able to give his son what he had bought. And clothes that I bought for my son that still fits that his father accidentally changed and left at his home went into the pile. So not all clothing were small.

Just wondering, legally was she able to give away clothing that was bought for my son?

I just want the clothing to give to my son.

Thank you for your time.

Last edited by emerald : 11-18-2007 at 09:27 PM. Reason: clarification
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Old 11-18-2007, 09:14 AM
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Hello my 2 yr old's father passed away two months ago. His father had no will and no executor. (My son has always lived with me and is still living with me).

I found out after his father's death there were many, in fact a lot of clothes for my son, some said to be small but I didn't get a chance to see any of it. His father was living with his mother (he was not a minor, he was about to be 26).

Well long story short, I had told the paternal grandmother on a Thursday I'd see her the following Sunday and gave her the specific date and told her I would get the clothes.

But she got the Sundays mixed up and on that Sunday (few days after we spoke) she got mad because I didn't show up (she later acknowledged the mix up). So she gave ALL the baby clothes except two outfits away to a couple who just had a baby, along with one outfit that I bought for my son that still fit.

Well, it's going on close to 2 months since the clothes were given away and she is unwilling to get them back because she feels bad on asking for all the clothes back.

So therefore, legally am I able to take this case to court since they were for my son? Is this a small claims or civil issue?

I want the clothing to give to my son, I do not want money.

I need this question answered as a Legal Standpoint firstmost.

Thank you for your time.
I believe this is a small claims issue and in the end (if you prevail,) you'll most likely receive the cash value minus any depreciation for the clothing. Courts don't typically require the goods be returned once given away, especially under the circumstances you've posted (a simple mix-up) but will assign a dollar amount instead. The property is no longer in the grandmother's possession. That amount may not even cover your court costs, depending on your location, and in my opinion, hardly worth the damage it can do to your child's family. That does include you. (Just a thought.)

I'm sorry for your family's loss. Good luck.
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Old 11-18-2007, 04:12 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Well guess there's really nothing I can do. I don't want any money, the original clothing would have been nice because his father always put time and a lot of thought into the clothing for his son. It just bothered me because I gave a specific date I'd get them and then she gave the clothes away out of anger because I didn't show up on the day in which got mixed up. So the main reason she gave it away was because of anger. Other family members were aware there was clothing there for my son and they wanted me to get it, but it was given away before I could even see or get them. Oh well...that's life.
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