Us Army Marrage Help Please!!!!

hey yall i married an army soldier, and whn i did i quit my job, sold my car and moved up to new york to be with him, he got deployed to iraq about a montha fter we got married, and so i moved down to fla to be closer to friends and family, so when i did tht i got an aprtment down here wher e i found out he was cheating on me! so what did i do? not the right thing but i cheated on him back!, and then he cut off my funds to any acsess to anymoney at all and wont give me a cent!!! now because of it i got eveitced otu of my apatment and now im homelss and im married!!!! to the military!!!! and i dont even get any finds for my house>????? how the **** does tht work! lol. sorry little mad! so i dont even have money to feed myslef or anyhting! what do i do anybodsy og thte answer???

If you remove the "he said, she said" part of your posting, you have very little else. Im betting if HE were asked, he would say YOU cheated first. So from an objective point of view, its a wash.

How were you supporting yourself after he was deployed? Is there a reason you cannot simply go back to work? You were not, apparently, married for any great length of time. Securing a job to see to your own welfare until this is worked out would be a good idea. I am not sure what your legal question is.

However, on a practical level, allegation of cheating from half a world away really are difficult to ascertain from the standpoint of truthfulness. And really, the whole I CHEATED BECAUSE HE DID thing really paints a bleak picture of your maturity. Abdicating any integrity you may hold simply because someone else did costs you way more than it costs him. Honestly---do you think he cares if YOU cheat when HE is allegedly cheating? If HONOR and INTEGRITY was high on his list of "must haves" he wouldn't have been cheating. Your cheating and engaging in casual s3x with your mentality as it is doesn't hurt him----it dishonors and risks YOU. And you are worth more than that.

You asked if you get money from a house--what house and where is it now? Is it the house you left behind and moved out of when you headed south?