what do ido?

i've been maried for 15years have 3 kids.my wife want's a divorce,she also want's our stimulus check and the house,and full costody of our children.my question is she put a protective order on me for harrasing her over the phone
the only thing i want is her to remove the order that she has against me.do i sign the divorce papers now and hope she will clear my name??

These are details you need to work out with an attorney.

If you want your name 'cleared" ( Im not sure why your name isn't 'clear'--you weren't charged criminally, were you?) You want to be allowed to harass her again?

Furthermore, she cannot revoke the OP. It is a COURT order---not a WIFE ORDER. She doesn't have the authority to revoke a court order against you anyway.

thank's for the input!!
no i was not charged with any crime..

Well, having an OP against you isnt a crime--and it doesn't reflect on your record like having a felony would, for example. In a few months (usually 6-12) the OP ends, unless, for some reason the judge made it permanent, which I have never encountered happening before. Take one step at a time--and for godsake, stop calling her!

i haven't seen my kids for 4 months,i can see them every other week,but i can't find the courage to go and face my soon to be ex wifes family!! i'm really worried to see or here about someone else in her life&my babies.i can bearly talk to them over the phone with out holding back the tears and the life i use too have.i know it would be best for the kids,for me too see them but i'm lost and confused,hurt,scared.any help or advise i would love too hear!!!thanks

What has happened since you posted last? When does the order expire? Two more months? Have you been to court? How do you see the kids without violating the OP?

Have you considered counseling? Many insurance plans cover mental health counseling--and it may help you during this difficult time.

I hope you have an attorney.