un contested divorce

Hello folks I need advice on a problem.

Im wanting a divorce and I have restraining order on me.

And I am willing to give her the house and everything in it.

What would be a good way to get the info to her so that we can agree or not agree on a quick and cheap way to get this done?

Should I just get an attorney and have him contact her and see what she wants to do.

We don’t have a lot of money so I will most likely get an extra job to pay for one. For myself.

I have filed and im waiting for a hearing.

A non contested divorce would be the most likely way to go if she agrees.

But getting the info to her is the problem.

I heard thru the grape vine she is not ready for a divorce.

But I am and I want out.

The restraining order was put upon me just to get me out of the house.

There was and never was any violence in involved.

And I know that is hard to believe , but it is true.

Im angry that she even did it.

But enough said , we have been married for 29 years and I want out.

I would like to do this the easy way .

If she does want to contest , does that means more time and money.

And can I just go on with life and let this loom over my head until she decides on what to do.

im rather new at this and i know there is alot to this.

Thanks…………………….Robert