Help with Law regarding Propert Settlement and rights?

Hello I know this may be a little long winded, but I have tried a lot of avenues and can't get any straight answers.
I was awarded the house in divorce along with property settlement payments. My ex-husband quit paying his property settlement payments after making only three of the ordered 60 and I fell behind on the loan. He is now behind 10 months.After two months of not being able to make the payments I moved out and found someone to rent the house. We are now having to wait on the courts to reschedule his contempt hearing because we were not heard on the day scheduled. The last payment showing was on June 8, 2007 which says it was applied to April, 07. He got the notice about the foreclosure instead of me since he was on the loan.He did not tell me about it until July, at which time I called the Mortgage company and was told they could only talk to him. He has repeatedly refused to "Authorize" me to speak with the mortgage company. A quit claim deed had been filed, but we did not refinance to put my name on it.The July payment was also sent before I knew it was in foreclosure, I do not have funds to reinstate because now instead of the two payments it was behind they are asking for 8000.00. What can I do? At the time when they contacted him around July 5th it had not been referred to Foreclosure, I tried talking to them then to find out the amount of arrears and they would not tell me.He informed me it was turned over to an attorney on the 18th of July. He believes that if I can not pay to reinstate the house he will and get possession of my house. One attorney suggested that I refinance the house in just my name which is not possible.
I am the only person on the deed to the house.
They have now set a sell date of Sept. 14, 2007. Help.....What can I do?