Probably the only way to get through this case for those on the Daddy's side is to remember that these charges have to be proven. That means that Daddy is going to have to pony up some fees... in the $20K range for a professional psychologist to talk to the "child" and to determine exactly what has brought their relationship to this state. There are convicted Dads who really didn't do anything wrong... and there are released Dads who were far too friendly. But the charges listed here are the kind that require stringent questioning in court if she sticks to this story. This "child" will be damaged if that happens. At her age, just what is it she wants???? This question is going to be the crux of your problem.