Ok I have a court date for September 11 to see if the they will drop the restraining oreder and is actually in front of a different judge so Im thankful for that but also dont know what to expect. I know that if the magistrate drops the restraining order my daughters father will then take me to custody court. I was just wondering, if the magistrate and judge doesn't aknowledge my efforts and I dont get my daughter back, if I give him custody of her so I can see her more, how hard would it be to get custody back? If I give him custody I could see her more but I want custody back at least in a year or so.