Wow. Find legal aid and find it fast! You have an attorney that is definitely after the money. If you must go to court without your attorney, tell the judge everything you wrote here and ask him if he could appoint someone else or if there is a way to do it without your attorney.

Yes, as my name suggests, I am not a professional. But I am not ridiculously naive either. It doesn't take an expert to wonder about the situation at hand.

A thought had just occurred to me. Would it be possible that she is working with your husband and his attorney? Since you are not paying her, is it possible that she is working with someone who is?