I need advice regarding 2 different issues that i am faced with. The first issue that I may be faced with is a charge from talking on the internet with a girl who I met in an 18 and older forum. Later after talking with her a couple of times I learned that she had misrepresented her age. She was only 16 and I am 21, after some talking and and some research we decided to go out since there is no legal ramifications to just dating so long as no sexual activity occurs. A little while after this her biological mother comes to visit her at her home. Her biological mother finds out that we are dating and proceeds to threaten me. This is the exact message she sent me.

This is reguarding your contact with a minor (**********). This is to inform you to stop all contact with this minor. If all contact doesn't deceased you will be reported.

I am worried about the problems that might occur with this and what I should do since I do not really want to break up with her. I am wondering if she can even legally threaten my freedom of speech like that. Not only is she threating that but I would lose the job that I am trying to get with the state and all my creditability towards many other possible jobs in the future. I really need advice and I need it fast since my girlfriend will want to talk soon if her mom just did this behind her back. Please help me I have no idea what to do. I have no problem with waiting it out if I need to but I wish I could at least tell her i was there waiting for her. What should I do?