
07-17-2008, 10:03 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 2
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an ex-boyfriends rights to a child
Hi. I am a little over 8 months pregnant and I was wonder about what rights the man who got me pregnant has/will have to the child . He has not taken any interest in going to my dr. appoints , elective 3d ultrasound or any parenting classes . In addtion to the when i first became pregnant he told me just to go to school and not to get a job because he was going to take care of everything , get a new place for us , ect . I didnt get a job because of this and i am currently in college . then when I was about 5 months pregnant he decided that he didnt want anything to do with , started complaining about my not having a job , though at this point i was noticably pregnant and could not find a job . We did not / have not and do not live togeather . About 2 months ago he decided to move back home with his parents (though he is 25 years old) about 45 minutes to an hour from where i live . I have tried to invole him . He will not answer my phone calls and only returns them at 11 o'clock at night. since he has haad no part in the pregnancy will he have any rights when the child is born ? I asked him if he wanted to have any form of visitation or if he just wanted to sign over his rights he says he will want visitation . Also as far as purchases for the baby such as car seat , crib , or my dr bills does he have any financial responsibilty and if not if i keep documentaion of all i have bought for the baby myself would ui be able to recive reembursment for thouse things in court should he choose to go to court over visitaion. in addition what would i do about child support in this case?
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