
06-30-2008, 02:22 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 9
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Thank you very much for your reply and feedback
The reason I started to think of a different arrangement is that I am afraid the judge won't be harsh ENOUGH. I am afraid she will tell us to keep the same agreement and that he just has to have supervision on his visitation time. That would defeat half of the reason for this, being, on top of the drug problem, he takes no responsibility for our daughter, does not feed or clothe her, does not have her in his care on his time, at all. She goes to his mom's house, it's been that way for a while now. The problem is that I have no way to prove that with documented evidence, although we ALL know, including my daughter and his mom, that it is true. If he is not exercising his visitation and chooses drugs over her, what is the point in joint custody?
Anyway, I am afraid she will be too lenient and leave us with the current order, just adding supervision to his visitation. 
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