I am sorry for your loss--I lost my husband of twenty years 12 months ago to a careless bus driver who killed him as he was a passenger in a work truck. He left behind our seven children, all minors, so, as a forty two year old widow, newly single mom of seven hurting little hearts, I do understand your anger, your frustration and your sorrow.

That being said, I am not sure what you are asking, or what your question is. If you are asking if this process is fair, the answer is no. If you are asking if there is anything humanly possible to rectify this wrong, the answer is no.

If you have a specific question about the process, or procedure, I can try to answer those. But I am uncertain as to what your question is.

Again, please accept my sympathy for this senseless and tragic loss.