i have 2 doughters with my husband, he has a son with an other woman a short time ago we were talking calling it quits, and i was told tha first born in state of Alabama is first priority, my kids would not get more because there are 2.or even the same as the firts child. arnt 2 children moer to rase alone then one child. my Q is is this true ? why if it is? thanks for the info and your help.