Hard to summerize what is going on but will try.

Met a girl off of the internet (I Know now NOT a good idea) felt bad for her, she claimed she was in an abusive relationship. She lived in California I lived in Indiana. Invited her to get "away" from him and stay with me. She brought her one son with her. Turns out she had a daughter her mom was raising and another son she left with the "abuser"? Again I know red flags.

Told me she was on a shot for birthcontrol. Short relationship. she had rage issues. less than three months later she was on her way back to California. Met the ex at the train station. shortly after they got married. Told me she was pregnant .. was mine .. then wasn't. Now she says the baby is mine. He is about 9 months old. timing does fit that he could be mine. The husbands name is on the birthcertificate. State of california contacted me asked for some of my information. I am confused.

If I pursue paternity .. she is stating I WILL not have visitation unless I go there! Job does not allow me time for that.

I want full or partial custody. If he is my son. Do I have many rights? She has all kind of issues. I currently have custody of my 5 year old daughter and provide well for her. I want to do the right thing. One minute she is telling me to get lost. The next she is asking why I don't come there! I have offered to send her clothes or anything else she needs even thought I don't KNOW for sure he is mine.

Any advice? Half the people say wait to see if anything gets filed and the other half tell me to push for custody!