Judge Judy knows all. I have an incredible sense of intuition. I wasn't trying to be judgemental. My point simply was that too often these days families are fractured and in a crisis it is time to be supportive even if it means a short term inconvienience, we need to love more, thats all. Of course I know that there are shady attorneys, cab drivers, doctors, clergymen, politicians, etc. a little common sense goes a long way when choosing an attorney, but without one this mother-in-law will get screwed.