I live in CA and have been married for six years and have two children. I recently found out that my husband was having an affair and the other woman is pregnant. Before proceeding through a divorce, which I'm unsure about, how can I find out if the other woman is really pregnant and not just trying to ruin my marriage. She said she does not want my husband for anything, what are my legal rights and what can i do to either my husband or the other woman?