I am trying to find out all I can about Alienation of Affection Laws and lawsuits. I know that Indiana,where I live,does not have a law on the books anymore but I am not going to be discouraged by that. The situation is rather delicate,since it involves not a person but rather a large established entity,namely the Cathollic Church.
My girlfriend of about two years broke up with me the other day. The reason for said break-up is that she decided God was more important to her. She lives in the Philippines and is very active in her church. Before we met,she told me it was one of her fondest wishes to have a SOLD (State Of Life Discernment). This week she found out she was in line for it. Before finding out what was required of her,she said Yes. Only afterward did they tell her that she could not have any kind of physical relationship (i.e. boyfriend,husband,lover,etc.) with a male as it may unfairly bias her decision. Now,I love this woman with all my heart and will not stand in her way,but at the same time there is the issue of pain and emotional suffering on my part. I am greatly displeased because there was no full disclosure on the part of the church (or whoever it was that told her about being accepted ) before she made her decision. I'm not saying she would have turned them down for me,I just think she should have taken the matter into some consideration,talked it over with me,etc. Is there anything I can do? Are there any legal grounds for me? I don't want any money out of this,I just want to see my girlfriend and talk to her but I can't because when you go through this kind of religious thing they isolate you from modern life and no one is willing to help me get in touch with her.