Hi- thanks for responding. I can deal with all the unfair, uncomfortable moments I had at this place of employment. what I think is wrong is that one individual's discussions over a twenty four hour period cost me two other job opportunities. Maybe I should be looking under a different category, like "intentionally causing emotional distress", or empoyer interfereing with the ability to get gainful employment." All I know is that I had two interviews set up, and then mysteriously they both cancelled, right after this gal came into town. This is not by accident, this is a small town, and neither of the employers would have cancelled unless someone had given them info. I am an occupational therapst, and we are few and far between, and in twenty years I've never had a problem getting a job, until now. I was enjoying a small, forty five minute commute to work, but now, I drive two and a half hours, and am gone two nights a week, away from my family. I don't think this is fair. I would love to look up and smile and forget, but I can't.