My comments are only directed towards the person who asked originally asked a question. I do not (and will not) use a forum such as this to postulate, exacerbate or otherwise inflame any person or persons, nor do I automatically jump to the conclusion one is wrong because one either disagrees or expresses an opinion contrary to my own. Those of us gainfully employed are well-aware that Human Resource Departments can direct towards a legal department that may or may not offer resources available at a discount to employees. Ministers or other clergy are also bound by a certain oath of confidentiality that is often lacking elsewhere. Family members, friends, etc may have encountered a difficult legal situation and can provide possible legal referrals or references. There is no need to openly discuss one's personal business, particularly that of a legal nature, but there may be a need to talk to someone who is familiar and who's judgement is already trusted. My opinion is that...merely my own..and to the best of my knowledge, the First Amendment has yet to be repealed. To the person who originally asked, I repeat what I said earlier...good luck