Guess I best start at beginning In August of 07 I had a stroke ( I have a blood clot in my cerebellum) and I have residual problems. I have aphasia which is a problem speaking and numbness and paralysis on the left side that comes and goes. In May of 08 My husband of almost 30 years decided he does not want to spend the rest of his life with me and left me to live with another woman no warning, we never had any problems arguments etc. Just switch his pays to a new account and left. For a while he was giving me money to live on (1300.00 per month his pension)). but told me to get a job. I work at home but that's only 600 a month. I have put in multiple job app's to no avail. I think the fact I have had a stroke blocks me from employment. Today he calls me and tells me he took money from the account. I told him I need it to live on and that it will cause the account to bounce. I wrote the checks for rent utilities etc. some cleared but the balance that was in the account he took with outstanding checks. I haven't even gone food shopping yet. His answer was " Oh well" and he hung up on me. Now he has a job and makes good money and all I was getting was the pension to live on. Now he has made it that I can get no food, gas, my medications or dog and cat food. I do not understand what is going through his mind. We have guardianship of our grandson whom I have with me and he isn't even caring that I have no money. Though he has stated in the past that he would take him to her. He has taken my life I do not want him to take our grandson, I do not know if this is his way of trying to get that to happen. I feel defective. I stood by him always, never went against any of his plans. He has leukemia but in remission and I took care of him through that. I have always be supportive of him. We have 5 sons and I am trying to keep the peace. They are upset with him for what is going on even though they are all grown. I do not know where to turn anymore. I feel lost and confused. He says he is going to divorce me but I have not heard anything as of yet. My sons have been helping when they can but you all know the economy. I am trying to contact Legal aid to see what my options are. This is tearing me up I know I am a fool but I still love this man. When I said my vows I meant them. I just checked my bank account and am at -300 with bounce charges so far. I have my own account for my pay to be deposited but that wont be for another 2 weeks roughly, The account he took the money from is the account his pension goes in that he said was for me to use. I am really wondering if the chemo all those years ago is doing something to his brain. This all started just prior to his 49th bday, in fact he called me on Mothers day 08 to tell me he did not want to spend the rest of his life with me and was with HER. He also informed me when he took the money this month that next month he will take it again. I cannot remove his name from the account as the check will not deposit if I do but be sent back according to the bank. He says I should be able to live on less than a 1000 a month but his pension just covers my rent and utilities and a small amount of groceries till I get my check which I said is only 600 each month. I do not know what my rights are or what else to do at this point. Sorry this is so wordy... Jacky